MY FIRST SOLO TRIP EXPERIENCE
I finally did it, guys! I went on my “solo trip” to the beautiful city of Dusseldorf (Germany). What is planned? Have I always wanted to visit Dusseldorf? Was I scared or excited? Well, If you keep reading, I will surely give you answers to all that.
Firstly, before jumping into today’s post, I would like to talk about this lovely maxi dress from Boohoo I wore during my holiday. It is comfortable stylish and most especially great as a transitioning piece during this time of the year. I love the fluidity and also perfect for all my modest bloggers who still want to remain very trendy.
Also, I would like to welcome you back to the blog. Yes, I am back now and I promise to stay close to you guys. Studies are out of the way, had a deserving holiday, it’s time to get back to reality/business. Thank you all for waiting for me – I AM BACK!
PLANNING THE SOLO-TRIP:
Thinking back now, I sincerely think I am living my dream. This is because I remember telling my high-school self how I wanted to move to England, do my undergraduate degree and masters then book myself a lovely trip alone somewhere alone to celebrate. I didn’t know the universe was listening and God was granting my wishes.
This trip wasn’t planned at all. On a frustrating night, while I was completing my dissertation, I needed something to motivate me to get through this period of my life. A short visit to the Ryanair website, I saw their on-going promo offer, Dusseldorf was on the top list along with other French cities. I was really determined to step out of my comfort zone. Going to a French city for me would have been a cheat because I speak French. Voile, that’s how I booked my 4 nights/5 days solo trip to Dusseldorf for £19,99. Yes, You read that right! That is approximately N9,500.
This time, I stayed in an Hotel-Hostel. What is an Hotel-Hostel Accommodation? Well, in simple term, it is a hotel family room with maximum 4 beds you get to share with other young travellers. I was really scared to be lonely and alone, so when I saw the advert pop-up on booking.com, I thought it would be a great idea to meet other people. Would I recommend? Yes, if you are really on a very low-budget because the 4 nights only cost me £55. Would I stay in a hotel-hostel next time? No, because it won’t be my first solo trip anymore, so, I am aware and know what to expect on a solo trip now. To think I didn’t get lonely for a bit, I think next time, I would love to have my privacy even though I met lovely girls called Michelle and her friend (Can’t remember her name now). It was also nice meeting Nora, the quiet writer and copy-writer from Berlin.
Would you believe I grew up thinking Germans are not friendly or unapproachable? I remember my class had a school trip in high-school to Germany and I didn’t even bother telling my parents about the trip because I had this idea of Germans to be almost “Negative”. Ignorance is a big disease and for several years, I have been such an ignorance. So, next time they tell you about somewhere or some particular type of people. Listen but keep an open mind. The history class about Hilter and Berlin wall got me messed up for several years.
The experience is unique. People were extremely nice, lovely and friendly. I had a total stranger from Syria based in Germany who volunteered to not only be my photographer while I was struggling to set up my tripod to take some shots. He also offered to show me around the city for more than 2 hours. I had the impression life was on a slow motion and everything seems calmer than England.
Overall a great experience without any regret. Although, the food sector wasn’t great as I find the varieties of food very limited. Lots of Kebab which isn’t my favourite type of meal but would I advise anyone to go on a solo trip? Of course! In fact, I think everyone should at least go on one solo trip in their lifetime.
If there is anything I learnt from going on this trip or advise I will give anyone interested on going on a solo trip, it will be:
- Feel the fear but do it: I was extremely scared but I still went ahead because the worst scenario is actually never the worst case. There is always a way out. I was really worried about being lonely and bored but then I knew the worst thing that can happen is to completely hate it, then sleep all day until I return to England.
- Whatever you put your mind to do, you can do it. With the fear and worries, everything eventually fell in place!
- There is more to life than where you are at this present moment.
- The more you travel, the more you see, the more you learn.
- Travel on purpose: I decided last minute to really enjoy the moment and not document every minute of my trip on social media because the purpose of my solo trip was to rest. I realise social media can be a subconscious pressure on us even when we think we can control it. I stayed in an accommodation I could afford without having to worry about doing a room tour for the gram or showing my breakfast in bed. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing bad about staying in a 5 stars hotel for as long as you can afford it comfortably. But, nowadays, travelling is becoming a “trend” everyone is jumping on so that they can show the gram rather than enjoying the experience. Don’t do it for the gram, travel on purpose! My purpose was to rest after 12 months on an intense study which I achieved excellently!
Thank you so much for reading.
Have you been on a solo trip before? What was your experience like?
Let’s continue the conversation in the comment section below! – See you soon…
I haven’t been on a solo trip just yet but I am planning one for my birthday in November. It’s more of a stay cation but I need to do a bit of a road trip to get there, so I am excited. I just hope everything goes well and I am able to relax and mentally prep for a whole new age.
Thanks for sharing your experience too.
That would be great. I think you will enjoy it even if it’s a stay-cation
I can’t get over how beautiful and fitting that jumpsuit is!!!
Thank you Rasheedat. Good to have you on the blog….Yes, I am in love with the Jumpsuit too
You’re so beautiful and I’m happy you enjoyed your solo trip. Went on a Solo trip 2016 to Ghana I enjoyed every moment.planning to go on another this December to Epe resort for 2days in Lagos thou can’t afford flight money for now. But I believe there’s nothing God cannot do .would just go to The Maldives instead
Thank you…… I would love to go to Ghana someday…!!!
I can relate to this post so much because I also visited Germany this summer, mine was not a solo trip as I was with two other friends of mine and we were there for about a month. I was in Frankfurt Germany though but I think the experience is quite similar. I have heard a lot about Germans but to my surprise they were quite nice and friendly as you mentioned also. There were not a lot of food to try because they were mostly made from pork. I also tried the kebab and it wasn’t bad at all. In all I think it was a beautiful experience and I would love to go back there soon to visit more cities. Thanks for the post and welcome back
Yes, it was a really good experience. I would definitely go back to more cities!!!
This is really interesting and inspiring! 🌺🌺🌺😍😍😍,
No have not been on a solo trip per say!
But I would really love to do that one day!
Thank you for reading…Yes, you should definitely go on a solo trip!!!
hmmm. this was a very nice read. Guess its time to consider going on a solo trip but i dont know how feasible that is for a married woman like me. Any tips?
Hmmmm, I think firstly, the hubby need to agree then just basically all the tips I mentioned
Awesooome! I think everyone should really have a solo trip at least once. I like the excitement of meeting new people without old people getting in the way, I like the excitement of discovering what you would really do in certain situations. I haven’t been on a solo trip before, but I intend to soon. Thanks for sharing. xo
Yes, I think everyone should atleast do one in their lifetime